Forget about Hollywood love - A beautiful girl meets a handsome guy at a beach on summer and got married and .. they get divorced 3 years down the road.
Why do so many people 'fall out of love' after many years?
In my humble opinion, most of them only fall in love emotionally and physically.
I like to quote something from the bible about love.
Deut 6:5 reads, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength."
True love requires emotional , spiritual , mental and physical commitments.
When we decide fall in love with someone emotionally, we get married and have sexual love ( physical ) . Youth and beauty do not last forever. When beauty fades, our emotional and physical love wanes.
Thus we need to mentally-commit our love to our spouses. We need to constantly reaffirm our love in our minds to our love ones. We need to tell ourselves that we shall love her no matter what and till death do us part.
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